Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Landscaping

Ever since we bought our house here in Stafford, we have had problems with the backyard, mostly because nothing had ever been done with it. This is our backyard when we first bought the house, the deck is in our neighbor's yard. Our house sits level to the backyard, so we decided to put in a patio instead of a deck. Less up keep with a patio and it was a lot cheaper.

The main problem with the yard is that our house sits at the bottom of a hill, and all the water flows down the hill and turns right into our house. There is no good drainage path, so when we have heavy rains, which are frequent in Virginia, the water would just build up by the house.



So, for reasons that I will go into in my next post, Jay decided that after living like this for six years, the time had come to do something about the flooding in the backyard. He worked day and night for about two months, after work and on weekends, and pretty much dug up the whole yard, graded the yard away from the house, put drainage pipes through the yard, and built a beautiful retaining wall with drainage pipes behind it. Then he put sod down and lots of rocks to help with the drainage. He and Jake did all this by themselves, my only contribution was bringing them cold water and helping to carry in the bricks for the wall. It looks beautiful and we have had hard rains since completion, and not a drop of water accumulates by the house. I am so proud of all their hard work!


The finished yard. It's beautiful!



Jake's Graduation

Jake finally reached the end of high school. He graduated from
North Stafford High School
on June 13, 2009. Jake graduated
Summa Cum Laude
meaning he graduated with a 4.0 or better grade point average. We are so proud of him for all the hard work he put into his studies. We are equally as proud of him for being a 4-year seminary graduate (that's 4 years of early morning seminary!)

The seniors in our ward at seminary graduation

Ready for the class of 2009

Jake walking into the stadium

Proud family with our graduate

The Summer of '09

Well, here it is November and I am finally going to blog about my summer. Jay is gone golfing for the day (even though it is rainy, he says that's good because there will be less people on the course) so I have the day to myself inside. Today is a good day to get caught up on my blog. Life is good, and I really want to document my life and share what's going on with all my family and friends. So, read on (I hope someone will read my blog) and enjoy the events of the summer of 2009!

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Why I Haven't Posted in a LONG TIME

Hopefully you haven't all forgotten me... It has been too long since I have posted anything, but I have very good reasons why time time has gotten away from me without blogging. Here are just a few of the reasons, I will go into more detail soon, I promise.



Saturday, May 23, 2009

Where in the World was I last Weekend ?

I enjoyed a fun weekend getaway with my girlfriends this past weekend.  Can you tell by the pictures where I went?








That's right, New York City!  We had tons of fun, the weather was perfect, and we had a great time together.  I am getting to be quite comfortable getting around New York now, so whenever anyone wants to come visit, we can take a quick trip up there.  Come see me!!  (That last plea is to my sisters, or maybe my nieces)

Pictures:
1.  First stop - Museum of Natural History (did you see Night at the          Museum?)
2.  Central Park for lunch
3.  Next visit - Metropolitan Museum of Art
4.  China Town for shopping
5.  Dinner in Little Italy (yes, I am holding my precious buys in the          infamous black bags, Coach purses!!!)
6.  Evening in Times Square
7.  We saw the newest show on Broadway - 9 to 5.  Way fun!

Friday, May 1, 2009

The joys of home ownership

As you know, we have lived many places.  We have bought and sold many houses.  I have to admit, I really loved my time living in quarters when we lived on military bases.  My quarters in Germany were huge and I loved living there. My quarters at Ft. Lewis were a bit small for our family, but I still loved living in them.  I liked the fact that when something needed to be fixed, I could just call a phone number and a nice man would come fix it.  I miss that.

We have noticed for some time that our garage doors were not going to last much longer.  I just hated the thought of what it would cost to replace them, so we just kept putting it off.  But when it got to the point that we could only open one of the doors, we knew the time had come. So today we got new garage doors.

I can think of PLENTY of things I would have rather done with the money, but this is the reality of home ownership.  For those of you still in quarters or in apartments, enjoy it while you can!  As for me, I will just have to go outside and admire the new doors every day  to make me feel better.


                            Our house before new garage doors

                   As you can see, the door is not in good shape

                  Jay's repair job is not going to last much longer

                                        New garage doors!  


Sunday, April 19, 2009

I don't know her, but I love her


I love coming across things that make me so happy that I cry.  My previous post was about how happy I was to be able to watch Twilight in my own home, whenever I want.  This post is about how happy I was to watch Susan Boyle perform on Britain's Got Talent.  I know this clip is everywhere on the web, but I wanted to post it on my blog because rarely do we get to see something that just plain makes us feel so good.  So good in fact, that it brings me to tears to watch it. I am so happy for her and for all of us that we, through the power of the internet, get to know about her.  I will watch this whenever I need a good pick-me-up.  Enjoy!


Saturday, March 21, 2009

Why I Am Happy Today


I am happy as a clam sitting on my couch watching Twilight today.  And, YES, I did go at midnight with my friends to buy it!  Can you say NERD ???

Don't care... so happy...

Thursday, March 19, 2009

27 Years ago today

                    March 19, 1982
       Jordan River Temple


Amazing... I love him more today than the day we got married (and I was REALLY in love with him that day)

Here's to 27 more great years!  (at least)

Saturday, March 14, 2009

My fun week

I was in Utah a couple of weeks ago, and I just haven't had the time to post about my fun trip. So, for those of you wondering what I did all week, here's a glimpse....


Thursday, February 26, 2009

18 Years Ago Today, An Answer To A Prayer

Jay left for the Gulf War when I was 8 months pregnant.  It was not an easy time for me, I had three small children at home, and, at the time, they were predicting a very bad war with many casualties.  Jay was the commander of a field artillery battery, so I needed to watch over all the wives of the soldiers in our battery while the men were deployed.  I did pretty well, I just did what I knew what to do, which was making them all visiting teachers to each other (they never knew what hit them).  We all took care of each other and watched the news and waited.

During the beginning it was mostly air strikes.  I did pretty well during those days.  But then the day came with an announcement on the news that the ground war had begun.  My due date was still a week away and I was very worried about how I would keep it all together for my kids and the other wives. I remember thinking that I didn't want to watch the news, but I couldn't NOT watch the news.  I just didn't know how I was going to get through it.

I knelt in prayer that morning and asked my Heavenly Father to please help me get through this, and to be able to not worry, so that it could stay somewhat calm around the house.  Now, I have received many answers to prayers throughout my life, but I know my Heavenly Father was aware of me that day, that He heard my prayer, and blessed me.

I went into labor that afternoon and Jacob was born that evening, February 26, 1991, the day the ground war began.  I spent the next four days in the hospital, focused on my baby, and by the time I went home, the war was pretty much over.  

Every year, when Jacob's birthday rolls around, I am reminded that his birth was an answer to my prayers, that he came at the exact time that I needed him to, and that our Heavenly Father knows us individually and will always watch over us.

Fast forward a couple of months, Jay came home safely and saw his son for the first time.

I am grateful every day for Jake.  He has brought happiness and fun to our home for 18 years.  I am so proud of the wonderful young man that he is.

        HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAKE



Saturday, February 21, 2009

We were tagged...

Thanks Paul and Alison (I do read your blog).  They sent this to both Jay and I, so I'll try to answer about both of us.  Try to stay awake, we are really exciting people!

8 T.V. shows or movies that we watch regularly:
1. American Idol
2. The Big Bang Theory
3. Top Chef (Jane only)
4. Project Runway (again, Jane only)
5. The Office (Jay only, Jane can't get the humor, if there really is any)
6. How I Met Your Mother
7. Friends reruns
8. Pride and Prejudice (Colin Firth as Mr. Darcy) (oh, of course, Jane only)

8 things that happened yesterday:
1. Larry H. Miller died (a sad day for all Utahns)
2. Taught 6th grade reading class (Jane)
3. Went to meetings all day at the Pentagon (Jay)
4. Unpacked my suitcase (yes, 2 days after I got home)
5. Watched two episodes of American Idol that I had missed while I was gone
6. Scratched Molly's belly
7. Took an evening nap on the couch (Jay)
8. Did not make dinner (Jane)

8 of our favorite places to eat:
1. At home (we don't eat out much)
2. Spaghetti Factory (sadly, only in Utah, none here)
3. Winger's (again, sadly none here)
4. Fina (my favorite restaurant in Georgetown)
5. Carrabba's
6. Cracker Barrel (for the Friday fish fry and Coca Cola cake)
7. Famous Dave's
8. McDonald's (sad but true)

4 people we tag:
1. Leslie
2. Carol (write something on your blog!!!)
3. Heather
4. Alanya

Jessica, you were tagged by both Megan and Alison and you never answered! Is this good blogging etiquette???  And you're the best blogger I know!  What's up with that???

Jordan, you were tagged also, but I'll cut you some slack because this is what your life is like right now:



Sunday, February 8, 2009

Idol Update #3

Well, I have been a little frustrated with American Idol for the past couple of episodes.  Too choppy, too much of the same people, not enough singing!  Don't get me wrong, still LOVE IT, but I am not seeing the people I want to see.  Anyway, SO HAPPY the BIKINI GIRL is gone.  Still waiting to see my fav, SCOTT MACINTYRE, sing again. So happy another fav, Danny Gokey, is still around.  I haven't seen Stevie Wright sing since her audition, but from what I could see she is still there also.  Looking forward to this week, the contestants get to use their instruments if they want, I think.  So don't call me Tuesday or Wednesday night!  (OK, you can call if you really need to, I have a DVR and can hit Pause, LOVE IT).

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

One Year Ago Today

It was one year ago today that we lost our beloved President Hinckley.  I love him and miss him. I am so grateful for the opportunity of knowing him and learning from him.  I'm grateful that he was the prophet of my children's youth.  He is to them what President Kimball was to me.  There is always a special place in your heart for YOUR prophet, the one that led the church when you came to your own understanding of the gospel and gained your own testimony.  As I write this my heart is full of gratitude to my Heavenly Father for a living prophet.  What a blessing in my life, in all of our lives.  I love and sustain President Monson and am grateful for his teachings.  I can truly feel his love for all of us.

Let's take a moment today out of our busy lives and remember the life of a wonderful man. Here is a beautiful tribute to him.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Idol Update #2

Well, you can tell my life is pretty boring these days because I have had nothing to post in between Idol posts.  But here's my opinion of last Tuesday and Wednesday's shows.

I really did not like ANYONE from the San Francisco auditions and that makes me sad.  I can't believe out of all those people there wasn't anyone to get excited about.  There was one guy, Adam Lambert, that was pretty good, but I think he looks too much like David Cook, so I don't think people will want the same type of guy again this year.

Even more disappointing was Louisville.  Again, I didn't really love anyone, although I do like Leneshe Young.  She is really cute and I do wish good things for her.  I do need to say that I am VERY UPSET with the show for putting Joanna Pacitti through to Hollywood.  She already had a record deal with A&M Records in the past.  I think this show should be for unknown, everyday people to get their big break.  Things like this just make me mad.

Well, I'm looking forward to this week's shows, hopefully there will at least be some people to get excited about.

And pray that some excitement comes in to my life so I can blog about something other than American Idol.

Friday, January 16, 2009

Idol Update

Well, here's my favorites from the first two audition shows:

From Phoenix I loved Stevie Wright!  I think she is adorable and I love her voice.  I hope she goes far in the competition.  I also loved Scott MacIntyre.  Remember he is the guy who is blind.  I think he is amazing, I can't wait to see more of him.

From Kansas City I loved Jessica Furney.  She is the girl that lives with her grandmother.  I'm not sure what it is, but I really think she is good and has lots of potential.  And then, of course, who didn't fall in love with Danny Gokey, the sweet guy whose wife just passed away.  I think he is wonderful!

What do you think?  Agree?  Disagree?  Can't wait for Tuesday!

PS.  I miss this guy.  Love him!


Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Are you ready?


I apologize in advance to all of you out there who read my blog (all 4 of you), but I love American Idol and there will now be weekly posts about who I like and don't like on the show.  It is my guilty pleasure and I am so excited!!!  It starts in an hour, so I'd better go get ready!!!



Friday, January 9, 2009

A Rasmussen Family Christmas


This is why I loved Christmas this year...


We were all together in the same house for the first time in two years.  It's hard when the kids get married, or go off to college.  It's hard getting everyone in the same place at the same time.  This was a really special Christmas for me and I hope it was for the kids too.  Of course, Kaden made it extra special.  There is something about having a baby in the house.  We enjoyed a White Christmas with tons of snow in Utah.  Jordan and Aubrey graciously gave up their privacy and their home to us, it was so great of them.  We went shopping, went to the movies, played games, and held Kaden.  It was a wonderful Christmas!

Our Golden Gopher


This one is for Uncle Justin and Aunt Jessie


Minnesota, Hats Off to Thee
To Our Colors True We Shall Ever Be
Firm and Strong, United Are We
Rah Rah Rah for Ski-U-Mah
Rah Rah Rah Rah
Rah for the U of M
M-I-N-N-E-S-O-T-A, Minnesota, Minnesota
Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay, Gophers !  Rah !

Let it be noted that no-one in the state of Minnesota knows what Ski-U-Mah is... you gotta love fight songs!

Who Cares About Florida?


Well, the picture says it all.  But, if you want to read about someone saying it again go here.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

It was SWEET

I know I graduated from BYU, and I have a daughter that goes to BYU, and I have a son that is hoping to get into BYU, but something deep down inside of me loves the 
UNIVERSITY OF UTAH.  
Maybe because that is where I met Jay, or maybe because Jay loves it so much and I love him, but whatever the reason, last Friday's Sugar Bowl was the best football game I've seen in my life.  It was so amazing to watch and I was just so excited for the whole state of UTAH!  Even BYU fans had to be excited about this one!  
Now we just hope the AP polls vote them #1.  GO UTES!